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Do you experiment with you partner in the bedroom?

Do you play around with toys?

Do you try sensory excitement with your partner?

If you answered NO to any of the above questions I’m here to help.

Everything I’m outlining in this post should not be tried until you’ve had some serious discussions with your partner and done some research on how best to give and receive pleasure as a dom and sub. There are plenty of books and sites dedicated to the subject and I suggest you start there before fully going down this exciting path. If you need help finding information to explore and learn from you can message me on my OnlyFans page and I will be more than happy to direct you to things that have helped my learn and grow.

Your bedroom should always be a safe place to try new things out with your partner. Trying things out can help with communication not only in the bedroom but also outside of it.

Below are some things you can try with your partner to spice things up.

One of the easiest things you can do to bring excitement to the bedroom is to play around with toys. If you don’t have toy play as part of your foreplay you need to change that right now.

Talk to you partner and see what toys they like. If they have a favorite already, surprise them by being the one to bring it out the next time you are together. If they don’t have a favorite find one with them. Shop together to find a toy that they really want to try out. Surprise them with the toy as a gift and get rewarded by getting to use it with them right away.

Toys can help you find out what really excites your partner and lead you to more passionate sex.
Hot and Cold play. Try drinking something hot and cold and then kiss your partners skin. Watch their whole body be aroused by the change in temperature.

You can also try to play with a little ice. Less is more when it comes to ice play but a tease across the nipples will always heighten their senses and be sure to follow it up with a warm kiss.
Don’t be afraid to tie your partner up. If you really want to heighten their experience be sure to try a blindfold as well. I recommend using something like a satin strap to tie your partner up at first. Remember the goal is to limit their movement not completely restrict it.

Start with just tying up their hands and arms and then let your hands, fingers and lips run wild all over their body.

Once you have gotten comfortable with the stain straps you can move up to more restrictive restraints like cuffs and rope. Be sure to always talk to your partner about what they want and at first give them a way to get out of the straps on their own.
Spanking can be highly erotic. This is not spanking to leave a mark right from the start. This is spanking and teasing to arouse your partner.

Always start this with your hand being sure to massage after each spank. When you find how much and how hard your partner likes it you can move up to floggers, paddles and crops. Be sure to always swap sides that you are spanking and take your time.

You should tease their bottom to get them in a heightened state of arousal not sure when you are going to spank them.

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Lingerie as part of a healthy sex life

I do love the way I feel in Lingerie and it’s a big part of a healthy sex life. I want to start using my site more to help others explore their sexual wellness and plan on posting more around topics related to that. Here’s a little post about bringing lingerie in to you and your partners sex life to live a happy and healthy life

Lingerie can be a fun and exciting addition to a healthy and fulfilling sex life for you and your partner. It can add an element of novelty, anticipation, and sensuality to the intimate moments shared between partners. Here are some ways lingerie can contribute to a healthy sex life:

Variety and Novelty: Incorporating lingerie into your sex life can introduce variety and novelty, which can help prevent routine and boredom in the bedroom. Trying out different styles, colors, and designs can keep the excitement alive in your relationship.
Confidence Boost: Wearing lingerie can boost self-confidence and body positivity. Feeling attractive and desired can enhance your overall self-esteem and lead to a more positive body image, which in turn can positively impact your intimate experiences. As I always mention I love the way lingerie makes me feel and feeling empowered is the best way to bring excitement to the bedroom.
Anticipation and Foreplay: Choosing and wearing lingerie can create anticipation for both partners. The process of selecting, revealing, and appreciating each other’s outfits can serve as a form of foreplay, building anticipation and excitement before intimacy.
Communication: The process of discussing preferences and choosing lingerie together fosters open communication about desires, fantasies, and boundaries. This communication can lead to a deeper understanding of each other’s needs and help create a more fulfilling sexual connection. Find out what color your partner loves and buy a surprise lingerie gift in that color to get the conversations started.
Role Play and Fantasy: Lingerie can be used as part of role-playing scenarios or fulfilling sexual fantasies. It allows you to explore different personas and scenarios in a safe and consensual way, enhancing the fantasy aspect of your sex life. Don’t be afraid to role play. I recommend starting with something simple and easy and then as you talk more with your partner you expand on your fantasies. If you travel a lot a role play scenario could be the strangers meeting at a bar. You don’t just have to role play in the bedroom the fantasy can begin outside the house and then continue at home.
Connection and Intimacy: Introducing lingerie can deepen the emotional and physical connection between partners. The effort put into selecting and wearing lingerie can communicate a desire to please and connect with your partner on a deeper level.
Sensory Stimulation: Different textures, fabrics, and styles of lingerie can provide sensory stimulation, adding to the overall sensual experience. Soft fabrics can enhance touch sensations, contributing to a heightened sense of pleasure. Be sure to spend time feeling your partners body while letting your hands and fingers run all over the lingerie. The feeling of the heat of a hand coming through silk and lace is amazing and will allow your partner to have their own sensual experience in the outfit. You get to see the sexy visual of the look, let them really feel the sensual qualities of the lingerie.
Spontaneity: Surprise your partner with lingerie to inject spontaneity into your relationship. This element of surprise can rekindle passion and create memorable, spontaneous moments.

Remember that a healthy sex life is built on mutual consent, trust, and open communication. If you and your partner are both interested in incorporating lingerie into your intimate moments, have a candid conversation about your desires, boundaries, and expectations to ensure a positive and enjoyable experience for both of you.

I can’t wait to hear your feedback on this post. Don’t be afraid do share what you love about lingerie and how it brings passion and excitement to you and your partners sex life.