I wanted to talk a little bit about the art of fellatio!
I know not every woman loves this and I know there are many men who simply do not enjoy it either.
What brings this topic up is that I was speaking with a Buddy the other day he said he had honestly not received any in over five years. He is married and maybe gets sex twice a month. I don’t know about you but that sounds absolutely miserable!
There are things that you need to just buck up and do!! I said so much more about creating intimacy ends enjoying one another versus let’s quickly get the deed done.
The other night I very casually slipped my husbands cock in my mouth. Slowly stroking then licking and teasing. Never going to fast but keeping up the pace just enough to keep him nice and hard. It’s such a reward when you can see that little Drop of pre-cum seeping out the tip.
You have to see every movement, hip thrust, groan and twitch as a complement!
Always a bit uncomfortable for those who are not overly expressive in bed but I cannot encourage you enough to have an open conversation! Ask: What do you want? How do you want it? What drives you wild? What are your fantasies? What is something unique about your sexual desires?! Are you more dominant or submissive? Show me how hard you want it?!
Tips for giving women Oral:
1- don’t ever go right for the clit
2- do you let your hands explore all over her letting her know how hungry you are for her touch. It will help her to relax and become more aroused.
3- start with the nipples!
4- don’t rush to take the panties off, tease all around them and then finally nuzzling in and pressing against her little bud.
5- figure 8 motion is ideal!
6- keep consistent consistent rhythm- switching techniques is fine just keep the rhythm going.
7- let your woman know you are enjoying it! – tell them they taste good and also make noise!